July 1, 2005

• Happy Canada Day!

  In this day of our year 2005, it is Canada Day! "WooHoo! It's Party Time!" As the Immortal Homer Simpson would say.

  The Gathering...Bring the Fireworks and all the ammunition you can:

  Jenn sent me an MSN Message a few days ago... it read:
  Having a BYOBF this Friday... between 1 and 2. Call for details.

  So I called, Dave picked up the phone and we chit chatted for all of 30
  seconds. Jenn asks in the background who it was, he replied it was
  Kurt, and for the rest of the conversation while I was asking Dave
  questions about times, place and was it both booze and food I was
  supposed to bring, Jenn was talking constantly in the background...

  Dave said for me to call Thursday to get final plans. I did at 3:30pm
  (just gotten off work early) and they didn't get to return my call
  until 9:10pm that night.

  The brief conversation that we had, Dave said it was being held at his marina. Bring your own booze and food, shit like that.

  For what its worth, Dave is still my friend no matter who he hangs out
  with now, or who he is marrying. But she's in for a surprise.

  You really have no Idea who you are dealing with do you?

  I have always been raised that if someone does something wrong to you,
  you should confront them, ask for them to apologize, and if they don't
  apologize, don't worry about it.  Karma will get them in the end.

  I haven't had a challenge like this for a long time and it's good to get those preverbial juices flowing again I'll explain.

  I am one to hold a grudge for a very long time... Over the past few
  years, I've mellowed a bit. Call it intution, call it fate, call it
  anything you want. But I really don't care anymore what people have to
  say about me. I mean, I belive that I have been raised well enough to
  be kind to those around me. I have stuck by it and people remember me
  for it.  That's what I hold onto. My ability to make friends and
  keep them.  Whether or not those friends talk to me again, or I
  don't see them in a few years, etc... They still recognize me.

  So, the fact that Jenn obviously doesn't want me around Dave because I
  haven't been over to cut their lawn, paint their house, clean their
  boat or do their maintenance and she attributes that to a negative
  attitude... just makes me want to be the better person and be the best
  friend, the cheerful friend all for the grand scheme of..... wait for
  it.... I know you'll enjoy this ....

  To piss Jenn off.

  Obviously I've struck a nerve with her because she has said the things
  that she did.  It's one thing to drive a wedge between life-long
  friends... It's another to drive one between Dave and myself... We have
  been through too much for something like this to happen.

  She's in for one hell of a fight

  Now, I know you must be thinking: But, Vx! They are getting married, they are in love, etc etc...

  Trust me I have NO intention of breaking up their marriage or anything
  along that line. That is my respect for Dave. That will never change no
  matter the circumstances. This is personal

  Untill she apologizes too me for the words that she said that she
  nearly drove me to a mental breakdown I might add... I will not let
  this go. I know this won't happen, but if she does, then we can go back
  to being friends.  For now, she is... not an enemy no, no no...
  but a challenge She wants to try her hand at physcology (pardon the
  spelling) against me? Go for it. I've been trained by the best.

  Let the games commence It's going to be one HELLUVA battle... I'll
  sell tickets and popcorn too Everyone gets a front row seat!

  Vx applying the cammo-paint, ready for action... wooha!

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